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October 30, 2011 Healthy Aging

5 Best Essential Oils for Stress Relief

Your boss wants that report on his desk, like, now. Your kid’s school just called and your child has a fever. That funny noise the car has been making for the past six weeks? You probably should have had it checked out because now the thing won’t start. Taxes are due, rent is going up and your cat needs a life-saving operation that will cost over a grand.

You’ve got stress. And you need relief, like, now.

But in addition to all of the above, you just don’t have TIME to meditate, go to a yoga class and chill out. There are things to get done, mechanics to call, sick children who need their temperature taken.

So how can you get fast stress relief without popping a Xanax? Look to mother nature for stress relief on the go.

Aromatherapy – the use of essential oils to create physical and psychological well being – has been in practice for thousands of years. Usually pooh-poohed as new-age hogwash, recent hospital studies are corroborating thousands of years of anecdotal evidence that volatile plant extracts can and do have a direct impact on mental and emotional well being.

Essential oils can be either inhaled or applied topically to the skin. When inhaled, i.e. diffused into a room, the molecules of the oil affect the limbic system of the brain and can regulate emotions. Essential oils applied to the skin are absorbed into the bloodstream. Since essential oils are highly concentrated, they should always be diluted in a carrier vegetable oil before topical application. Common carrier oils include sweet almond oil, sunflower seed oil, jojoba oil and sesame oil.

While the following guide gives examples of good essential oils for stress relief, each person responds differently to an oil’s aroma depending upon his or her past association with that scent. Choose the oil that you respond best to, or blend a couple of oils together for a synergistic essential oil stress relief blend.

The 5 Best Essential Oils for Stress Relief

Lavender – Lavender essential oil is perhaps one of the best all-around healing essential oils. It’s great for skin and wound healing. Lavender is antidepressant and soothes the nerves. Its scent is sweet, floral and herbaceous. When working with lavender essential oil, most people feel a sense of clarity and calm.

Bergamot – Bergamot is the scent used to flavor Earl Grey Tea, so you may find it familiar. It has a clear, citrus-y aroma, similar to orange or lemon but much lighter and with a freshness of a cool breeze. Bergamot’s uplifting aroma is very healing for anxiety and depression. Bergamot can cause sensitivity to sunlight, so avoid direct exposure for 24 hours if you apply this oil to your skin.

Peppermint – Peppermint essential oil is especially uplifting if you are suffering from mental fatigue. Its cool, refreshing scent is reminiscent of peppermint candies, though perhaps not quite as sweet. Peppermint is unique in that it is both a nervine (calming to the nerves) and stimulant, so its aroma will give you a bright, cheery outlook on life. It’s also one of the best oils to have while traveling because it can soothe everything from a headache to an upset stomach.

Vetiver – Vetiver is not everyone’s cup of tea, but it’s one of my absolute favorite oils. Deep, dark, earthy and resinous, vetiver smells like growing things in the springtime, pushing their little green noses up through moist soil. Some people love vetiver’s musty aroma while other people can’t stand it, so test this one out before purchasing. Vetiver has a heavy quality to it and is particularly useful in cases of insomnia or nervous stress where the mind is cluttered with racing thoughts.

Ylang Ylang – Ylang ylang essential oil has the same effect on the psyche as alcohol (without the side effect of drunkenness); it is both relaxing and removes inhibitions. Ylang ylang is an excellent oil for type-A personalities who feel the need to control every detail of their daily lives. It has a very sweet, floral scent that can be overpowering or cloying in excess, so use sparingly.

August 16, 2009 Healthy Aging

8 Surefire Stress Busters

Do you suffer with chronic stress and worry? You’re not alone.

Stress is a leading cause of disease and has serious detrimental effects on your body. Unfortunately, modern life is fraught with stress-inducing stimuli. From fast-paced work environments to the constant invasion of technology, economic uncertainty, ever-increasing traffic and trying political times, stress just seems like an everyday side dish.

And when you’re short on time, it’s easy to scrimp on the self care. However, the long term degenerative effects of stress on your well being are too drastic to ignore.

Recent scientific studies have shown that stress is insidious and lethal, slipping beneath our conscious awareness to shrink our brains, add fat to our bellies, and even unravel our chromosomes!

The good news:

You can do a lot of free, quick and easy things to instantly reduce stress.

Here are 8 ways to incorporate positive self care habits everyday that cost next to nothing (some are even free, save for a little time investment!) and will keep you sound of mind and body for years to come:

1. Breathe!

The more stressed and hurried we become, the less we remember to take full breathes. Your cells need oxygen for energy and also to help flush out cellular waste. Your brain needs oxygen to function optimally. When you take shallow breaths, your body has to work extra hard just to function normally. Take a few moments several times a day to breathe deeply. Make sure you focus on exhaling all the air in your lungs. Your inhale can only be as full as your exhale.

2. Move!

Movement releases tension, stimulates your nervous system, and encourages you to breathe more deeply, bringing in additional oxygen to the body. Studies have also shown that exercise actually keeps your brain sharp, so to maintain clear cognition, make sure you get out and move your body daily, even if it’s just walking the dog around the block. Body mind practices, such as yoga or qi gong, are excellent additions as they focus your attention on places you’re holding stress and tension in your body, allowing you to consciously release them.

3. Reorganize your home.

Chaos breeds chaos, and a messy home can create mental clutter as well. If your home isn’t a sanctuary, consider spending a Saturday doing a deep cleaning (I recommend using natural and organic cleaning products to avoid chemical off gassing that can cause headaches and nausea). Clear out clutter that you no longer need by taking it to the local Salvation Army or Goodwill. You’ll be surprised how clear headed you feel once your home is in order!

4. Use relaxing fragrances to calm your mind.

Fragrance has a deep effect on our psyche, and we quickly learn to associate certain smells with feelings and memories. Place an essential oil diffuser in your home. Lavender essential oil is soothing, Peppermint is uplifting, Bergamot is an anti-depressant, and Rosemary is energizing.

5. Cut back on caffeine.

Okay, I know this one is tough! I’m a Seattle girl, after all, and we’re known for our excessive coffee habit. With that in mind, if you feel yourself constantly jumpy, notice your hands are shaky, or you struggle with anxiety, consider limiting the coffee you drink. Switching to a different caffeine source can also do the trick. Yerba Mate and green tea are good options for some people.

6. Meditate.

Ugh! You mean sit still and clear my mind of all thoughts? Yep, that’s what I mean. When you’re stressed out, the committee in your head gets louder and louder until you can’t hear yourself think anymore. You may even forget what you think! If sitting quietly sounds about as much fun to you as getting a root canal, try joining a meditation group. The accountability and community support can make the experience fun and relaxing instead of another arduous task to complete. Time crunched? Try a meditation CD to help you drop into peace and tranquility.

7. Unplug.

We’re bombarded by thousands upon thousands of messages all day long: billboards, television, email, cell phones, text messages, magazine ads, headlines….the list goes on. Take some time to get out in nature, and leave the cell phone at home! For those of you city-bound folks, nature does not include the local landscaped park. Instead, head outside urban boundaries if you can and walk amongst old growth forest, desert landscapes, or whatever beauty your particular corner of the earth has to offer. If you have a dog, this can be a great excusion to make together. Pets have a way of reminding us how to let go and be totally present in the moment. When you return to civilization, your mind and body will feel clear and focused.

8. Release stored tension.

When you feel your shoulders tightening from sitting in traffic or staring at a computer, you can ease your own stress in five minutes or less. With your right hand, tuck your thumb under your fingers and curl your fingers down toward your palm, making a soft fist. Rest your right elbow in your left hand and use your right fist to gently tap on your left shoulder and upper arm. Tap gently, focusing more on the upward movement of your hand than the downward strike, and avoid any prominent bones. Repeat on your other side. Once finished, take a few deep, cleansing breaths and feel your shoulders relaxed and tingling.

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